“Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more beings.” - unknown.
Now, I can safely say I’ve gone through a lot of ups and downs… Mostly the downs, fortunately. Why fortunately? Because I learn more things in these downs than all the ups, where I just celebrate… Friendship or lemme refine, relationship, is something you need in these ups and downs… My inspiration, my friend, Joseph, is quite a useful ingredient to what I am today, well mostly I have to thank God but Joseph was part of God’s gift too… One thing about him is that, no matter how hard I tell him that something is bad and worth to be angry about, he looks at the brighter sides of things. While sometimes it can irritate me, mostly it made me feel that ‘Yes, it’s way better not to have a grudge about it. Let it go and move on. If you hate it, don’t bother about it. It’ll only make you angry.’
Feel inspired? Well that’s Joseph for you. Without him showing me Rich Dad Poor Dad, and without me even going to a junior college, I wouldn’t have realised all the wonders the world has to offer.
Let’s move on. Just recently, I’ve decided to take some time off and look back at my past. I begin to realise I’ve been quite selective of the people I want to know and work with. If they’re bad and not to my liking, I simply regard them as acquaintances and find more worthwhile people. Worthwhile meaning constructive to my growth. Just like a business that needs different types of people for their different stages of growth, I realised I need more people, more experienced ones to develop me to my next stage. If you’re asking me how I know what stage I’m on, believe me, you will know when you’ve hit it.
You begin to realise you’re going nowhere. You begin to figure ‘ Is there anything else I can grab out of this? Somehow, now, I feel that that the relationship with some people that I’ve held ever so tightly, is slowly being eroded by natural causes. I wouldn’t say they’re bad or I hate them, but I just feel that it’s time to move on. They’ve done a good job, but I just have to let go. It’s hard to say goodbye, but for the better of myself, it’s what I must do. I can safely say it’s a tough decision. It’s like wandering in the deep blue sea without no lifejacket or any communication device. You’re basically independant.
What I would love to leave to all the readers of this blog is, whatever you do, even if you think is hard, make sure it’s for the mutual benefit. And always, never lose sight of your goal or whatever you wanna achieve, for it will just keep the passion burning and trust me, you’ll do whatever it takes to get there.

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